Being single has its own perks as well as being in a relationship. They each also have their downsides. While most want to have his/her significant other, being single aint that bad! While being singe, one has the ability to go around flirtin it up with whoever and whenever without having a guilt trip or whatnot. Now I don't know if a lot of people do that while being single because I know that I don't. Being single also means that you have freedom. I know saying it like that makes being in a relationship sound bad but that's not what I mean. When one is in a relationship, you have to adjust to the other person's likes, dislikes, etc. Of course, when you are in a happy relationship, one is more than happy to compromise, as they should be but being single just lets one be who and however they want to be. Downsides. Do I really have to say it? When you're single, you're single! You don't have that special someone on Valentine's Day or celebrate cute little anniversaries. You don't have someone to cuddle with or have date nights with. Now that I think of it, this kind of sounds somewhat depressing. Well maybe depressing isn't the right word but you know what I mean and I'm sure there are many who love being single. Being in a relationship is pretty awesome too though. You basically have everything that a single person doesn't when it comes to this particular topic. There are downsides to this too though. You have to find time to spend with your gf/bf and spend extra money for him/her. You also may not be able to hang out with your friends as much (especially those of other sex if your bf/gf is possessive) which may lead to fights and anger. I don't know about you but I would be pretty pissed if I wasn't allowed to hang out with my friends just because of one person. So in general, I just think everyone should know that there are perks to both sides. Just be happy in the state your in right now! :)
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